Finding the Gemstone That Reflects Your Forever - How To Pick A Stone For Your Enagement Ring

Every love story is unique and so should be the stone that represents it. At Kherish, we believe your engagement ring should feel as personal as the moment you say “yes.” From luminous diamonds to the ever-changing beauty of alexandrite, each gemstone carries its own meaning, energy, and charm. Here’s how to choose the one that speaks to your heart and fits your lifestyle.

Choose a Gem That Matches Your Life

Your engagement ring isn’t just for the proposal, it’s for every day after. That’s why durability matters. Each gemstone is rated on the Mohs hardness scale, which measures resistance to scratching and wear. The higher the number, the more your gem can handle life’s little moments.

A guide to gemstone strength and style:

Mohs Hardness Scale & Gemstone Guide

10 – Diamond
The hardest gemstone on Earth, diamond embodies strength, purity, and everlasting love. With unmatched brilliance and durability, it remains the ultimate choice for engagement rings and fine jewelry designed to last generations.

9 – Ruby, Sapphire

• Ruby: A gem of passion and power, ruby’s fiery red hues symbolize vitality, courage, and devotion.

• Sapphire: Best known in royal blue, sapphire represents truth, loyalty, and inner peace. Both are highly durable and ideal for everyday wear.

8 – Topaz
Topaz dazzles in shades from pale champagne to vivid blue. Believed to inspire creativity and balance, this gem combines beauty and strength for versatile jewelry pieces.

7.5 – 8 – Spinel, Aquamarine

• Spinel: A brilliant stone found in an array of colors, spinel stands for revitalization and energy — often mistaken for ruby or sapphire due to its vivid tones.

• Aquamarine: With tranquil blue hues reminiscent of the sea, aquamarine symbolizes serenity, clarity, and lasting harmony.

7 – 8 – Emerald, Amethyst

• Emerald: Revered for its lush green color and connection to renewal, love, and growth, emeralds exude timeless elegance.

• Amethyst: With its royal violet hue, amethyst is known for promoting calm, clarity, and spiritual protection.

7 – Quartz, Peridot, Tourmaline, Citrine, Garnet

• Quartz: A versatile family including rose, smoky, and clear quartz — each offering healing, balance, and harmony.

• Peridot: A cheerful green gem symbolizing joy and abundance, often associated with the summer sun.

• Tourmaline: Available in a rainbow of colors, tourmaline is thought to attract inspiration and compassion.

• Citrine: Known as the “stone of success,” citrine’s golden glow symbolizes happiness, energy, and prosperity.

• Garnet: Deep red and richly symbolic, garnet stands for passion, grounding, and protection.

6.5 – 7 – Moss Agate
A gemstone inspired by nature itself, Moss Agate features soft white and translucent tones with moss-like green inclusions. It embodies growth, balance, and grounding energy. While slightly softer than other stones, it’s beloved for its organic beauty and connection to the earth — a favorite for bohemian and nature-inspired jewelry.

6 – 6.5 – Tanzanite
Tanzanite’s mesmerizing blue-violet hue is both rare and alluring, symbolizing transformation and emotional depth. It requires mindful wear but rewards with exceptional color and brilliance.

6 – Moonstone
Moonstone’s pearly sheen and ethereal glow make it a symbol of intuition, femininity, and new beginnings. Best worn with care to preserve its luminous beauty.

5 – 6 – Opal, Turquoise

• Opal: Known for its shifting rainbow fire, opal represents creativity, inspiration, and emotional freedom. Each stone is completely unique.

• Turquoise: A timeless favorite, turquoise embodies protection, wisdom, and spiritual grounding.

2.5 – 4.5 – Pearl
A symbol of purity and elegance, pearls are organic treasures from the ocean. Their soft luster represents love, integrity, and balance — best worn delicately.

While softer gemstones like opal or moonstone need a little extra care, they bring a poetic glow that makes every ring uniquely yours.

Our Gemstone Styles

Every Kherish piece is crafted with intention, designed to match your story, values, and vision. We offer three gemstone categories so you can find the balance of authenticity, ethics, and affordability that fits you best.

• Natural Gemstones
  Treasures formed deep within the earth over millions of years, natural gemstones are entirely created by nature and carefully mined for their rare beauty. Each stone carries its own unique inclusions, color variations, and energy, making no two gems alike. Because of their authenticity and organic origins, natural gemstones are highly prized for collectors and those who value one-of-a-kind jewelry pieces. At Kherish, our natural gemstones are ethically sourced and hand-selected for their brilliance, durability, and vibrant character.
  
  
• Lab-Grown Gemstones
  Lab-grown gemstones are created through advanced technology that replicates the same physical, chemical, and optical properties as those formed in nature. They are chemically identical to natural gemstones, offering the same sparkle, hardness, and color but with a more sustainable footprint. Crafted in controlled environments, they minimize environmental impact and ensure traceable, conflict-free origins. Lab-grown gems are a modern, ethical alternative for those seeking luxury with a conscience blending science, beauty, and responsibility.
  

Every Kherish listing includes detailed gemstone information, ensuring transparency and confidence in every purchase.

Your Story, Your Stone

No matter what draws you; the eternal sparkle of diamond, the vibrant glow of moissanite, the color-shifting mystery of alexandrite, or the organic charm of moss agate your perfect gemstone is waiting.

Explore the Kherish Engagement Collection and find a ring that captures your heart and your forever.

Need help choosing? Our jewelry specialists are always here to guide you through the process and help you discover the gemstone that reflects your love; beautifully, ethically, and authentically.